TY - BOOK AU - Gottman,John Mordechai AU - Silver,Nan TI - The seven principles for making marriage work SN - 0609805797 (pbk.) U1 - 646.7 PY - 1999/// CY - New York PB - Three Rivers Press KW - Marriage KW - Married people KW - Psychology KW - Communication in marriage KW - Man-woman relationships N1 - Inside the Seattle Love Lab: the truth about happy marriages -- How I predict divorce -- Principle 1: Enhance your love maps -- Principle 2: Nurture your fondness and admiration -- Principle 3: Turn toward each other instead of away -- Principle 4: Let your partner influence you -- The two kinds of marital conflict -- Principle 5: Solve your solvable problems -- Coping with typical solvable problems -- Principle 6: Overcome gridlock -- Principle 7: Create shared meaning -- Afterword: What now? N2 - Drawing on research into the dynamics of healthy relationships, a study of the basic principles that make up a long-lasting marriage shares advice on how to cope with such issues as work, children, money, sex, and stress ER -